Paedophiles are using culture and religion as a cover up. A wedding
ceremony between a 62-year old chief and a 15-year-old girl in Kwa Zulu-Natal
province of South Africa took place over the weekend.
The appropriate article
with a photo (see below) was published on January 20, 2014, in ILANGA newspaper.
AVE (Abuse and Violence Eradication) in Africa !!! On this Blog, We discuss cases and proffer solutions concerning Child Abuse, Sexual Abuse and Domestic Violence in Nigeria and Africa as a Continent. We also educate the public about how best women and children can protect themselves from predators in societies with poor level of security and increasing number of pedophiles.
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
Monday, January 20, 2014
71 YEAR OLD SAYS HE RAPES LITTLE GIRLS TO ELONGATE HIS LIFE
Alhaji
Ganiyu who is a hunter and a night guard was recently arrested for defiling a
seven-year-old primary one pupil, (name withheld) inside his one room apartment
after luring her with biscuit. He was arrested by men of the Nigeria Security
and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC), after the victim’s mother rushed to the
security agency for help.
Giving his statement, Ganiyu
admitted to the crime saying his actions were carried out so he’d live
longer, adding that he regrets all his actions. “I slept with young girls
to elongate my stay on earth. That is all I need to extend my stay. It was not
for ritual or money making as people think. All the same, I regret my actions,”
he said. Meanwhile, parents and relatives in the area are now calling for
thorough and prompt investigations into the suspect with a view to bringing him
to book.
According to Daddy Fash, uncle of
another defiled girl, he suspect needed to be brought to book to serve as
deterrent to other unknown defilers. Another complainant said, “My daughter had
once been a victim of this man and no one could say anything because the man is
highly diabolical. His antics are well known to the people of the area but no
one dared confront him. It is now that the whole world has seen what we
have been suffering in silence over for a long time”.
The spokesman for the NSCDC in the
state said that full investigation into the crime had commenced while efforts
are on to apprehend the Alhaji Ganiyu’s accomplice who is now at large.
20/01/2014
PROSTITUTION IN DUBAI, IN THE NAME OF "BUSINESS"
God made man; man made
Dubai, a glittering city in the United Arab Emirates (U.A.E). Dubai with a
population of a little over two million (the largest city in the UAE) is one of
the seven emirates that make up the country. Compared to many countries in the
world, Dubai approximates to heaven’s gate. It glitters both at day and at
night. The visa policy is liberal. At the snap of the fingers, you can get visa
to Dubai ranging from two weeks to months. Because it is a city that thrives on
tourism, it depends far less on revenue from oil; immigration procedure is also
relaxed, comparatively. There are few countries in the world that better the
profile of Dubai in terms of cosmopolitanity. Dubai is cosmopolitan and it is
home to people from every part of the world. It is not the capital of UAE, Abu
Dhabi is, but it dwarfs other emirates in popularity and tourism equity.
Because of its liberal
visa policy and cosmopolitan nature, men and women from all over the world and
with diverse missions, some tending towards lewdness, congregate in Dubai. Walk
into any department store or shopping mall; you are likely to accost women from
Russia, Britain, all parts of Africa, Asia especially Filipinos and Chinese.
They are there for business, a special type of business….yes, for prostitution.
You may have heard that the whole of the UAE hold to some values and virtues
especially those values that promote chastity and puritanism. It is true. Here
in Dubai, you are not permitted to hawk sex, commercial sex workers are
abhorred, alcohol is prohibited and banned from the shelves of stores
especially in the bars of some hotels. Here in Dubai, pornography is anathema
including using the internet to surf through gay, lesbian and lewd sites. Dubai
has very strict laws against sex outside marriage. For instance, two persons of
opposite sex are not allowed to share a hotel room except they are husband and
wife. Sex outside marriage attracts jail sentence if proven. Last year, a
32-year-old Saudi tourist was jailed for one year after he was said to have
slept with a 34-year-old Uzbek woman in his hotel room. The woman got three
years after admitting to prostitution. Those convicted of having sex outside
marriage face a sentence of between one month and three years under Dubai law.
Yet, there is a curious
twist of irony to the whole tale. In the midst of this regime of do’s and
don’ts, prostitution still flourishes in this enchanting city. And Nigerian
women for reasons bordering on hardship at home have found a lucrative trade in
the Dubai sex market. These women, some in their twenties and thirties flock to
Dubai with tourist visa, operate as commercial sex workers for months and use
the money to buy goods for sale in Nigeria.
Recently, this writer
slipped into the underworld of the Dubai sex market in the Deira area of the
city. Deira is the older part of Dubai with a strong community of Indians,
Pakistanis and persons from Bangladesh. It also has a huge sprinkling of Asians
and Africans. It is a busy part of the city buzzing with commerce. Everywhere
in Deira is a shop, a trading post of sort, where everything, including sex, is
sold. Hotels, most of them lowly priced by Dubai high standards, dot the
landscape. The hotels have night clubs. Dubai has one of the most active night
lives. Pubs and bars begin to fill up in the evening hours when people frolic
to escape the intense heat of the day. Deira is the epicentre of downtown
Dubai. Its strength is the population density made up of people from all parts
of the world. But it is in this mix of humanity that Deira provides a fitting
platform for commercial sex workers.
INSIDE ASTRAF
HOTEL
Our guide, Emeka, took
this writer through the red light district of Deira. Destination: Astraf Hotel.
This is a seedy low-grade hotel that has transformed to a brothel. Astraf Hotel
sits at 19C Street by Community 118 in the heart of town. The ground floor of
the multi-storey building houses several stores from electronics shops to
fabrics sales outposts. Entry into the hotel is easy. Nobody queries your reason
for visiting. The receptionist, an Indian with a small oval face, merely
glanced at you as you walk briskly up the stairwell. Nothing outside the
building betrays the harlotry inside the hotel. But as soon as you fly up the
staircase unto the first floor, the drama begins. Half-clad Nigerian girls have
taken up temporary tenancy in different rooms in the hotel. They stand by their
doorways to hunt for clients. Their clients are mainly visiting African
men including Nigerians, Asians and Arabs.
According to our guide,
a fling with Nigerian girls goes for 50DH. Prices vary with the nationality of
the ladies. Many women from different parts of Africa operate as commercial sex
workers in Dubai. Moroccan and Ethiopian women cost more. The cheapest, he
reveals, are Ugandan girls. They go for as low as 30DH. The ladies have pimps
who link them to wealthy Arabs with taste for African women. For their trouble,
the pimps get a cut out of their earnings. Our guide says some of the
African women prefer to go through pimps who selectively hand them over to
their trusted clients. “These trusted clients are usually wealthy men who
prefer to keep that aspect of their life discreet; but they are the ones who
take very good care of our girls”, he says.
But Nigerian commercial
sex workers in Dubai have dealt a deadly blow to the reputation and image of
Nigeria, and more eerily to the value of Nigerian women who visit the emirate.
Our guide said some Nigerian women who are not in any way connected to
prostitution had been harassed by men who perceive every Nigerian woman as a
sex hawker. “The whole thing is embarrassing”, he said.
AT
RHAMI HOTEL
Rhami Hotel located in
the densely packed Deira area is a hotbed of fun. Alcohol is freely served
here. Women of easy virtue circulate from table to table in search of
‘clients’. Nigerian girls add to the number. The language here is English and
you could tell from the conversations amidst the deafening blasts of music that
Nigerians are in the majority here. As it is at Rhami Hotel, so it is at Garage
Hotel, another joint of African orientation.
A CITY OF
PARADOXES
How do these Nigerian
women beat security and escape the eagle eyes of immigration officials? Very simple.
In Dubai, there are travel agencies whose briefs extend beyond arranging flight
tickets and hotels; they also offer a special service called ‘visa change’.
Dubai visas range from two weeks to nine months. Visas running into months are
issued to students and persons of proven genuine business interest. These
Nigerian women get visa up to one month but as soon as it expires, they
approach the travel agency through a syndicate for ‘visa change’. This allows
them to relocate to Oman, Kish or any of the neighbouring cities adjoining the
UAE and return to Dubai to continue with their ‘business’ as soon as a new visa
is procured. The visa change scheme enables them to manoeuvre their way and
enjoy extended stay in Dubai.
Dubai,
a strict Islamic emirate is a mixed bag of the good, the bad and the ugly. It
is here you find bars and pubs that offer drink-all-you-like services. It is
here that some couples have been charged with having sex in taxis and in
inauspicious places. Though the laws are strictly enforced but these
Nigerian women with help from the Dubai sex syndicates have cleverly navigated
their way to beat the law and its enforcers. But their dirty trade has sullied
the reputation of the country. Whereas they claim they were driven by economic
hardship, they are yet other women in the country who would rather stay poor
and hungry than sell their body for cheap. It is their choice to prostitute but
it is a wrong choice at very grave risk. This is not to say that every
Nigerian woman who travels to Dubai for business is a sex worker. It is
unfortunate the bad eggs are becoming more than the good ones.
Ray Umukoro, Editor-at-Large
THE NIGERIAN WOMAN
I have heard several talks, several stories both written and spoken, that
leaves one sad and broken. Child abuse has become a major issue in Nigeria. You hear of a child of 3 year old molested by
a man of 60, and then you wonder what the world is turning into. What exactly
is happening in Nigeria? What do these men see in this horror act they engage
in? It’s hard to understand what goes through their mind at the thought of
defiling a child. Today, for every time you flip the pages of a newspaper there
is always a story of child molestation or even older women been raped.
Every African woman is
subjected to a lot, she carries a lot of burden, yet some still do her evil. Women
need to speak up! If you have been a victim- speak up; save someone. You
just may be lending a hand and a word of encouragement to someone. When you
share your experience you release yourself from a burden.
Lend your voice to this cause, let’s all join hands with the Eve’s World team
in creating awareness and make a difference.
Protect yourselves, educate your daughters and may God guide us all.
-
Tolulope Fasanya
Sunday, January 19, 2014
VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN IN NIGERIA
It
was indeed very horrible and in fact a gory sight watching the video clips in a
social media of the beastly act of the wicked men who masqueraded as members of
the Vigilante group, engaged to secure the market in Ejigbo, against the poor
wife of a wine tapper and Nike, her step daughter, in February 2013, on a mere
allegation of stealing pepper in a market. This incident again reminds us that:
1.,
Nigeria is a failed or failing state incapable of providing food, security and
other basic necessities of life, to its highly impoverished citizens.
2.
That the Nigeria police and in fact the other security agencies, are
ineffective when it comes to responding to crisis, averting violence and
nipping crime in the bud. This is notwithstanding the highly improved and
fabulous allocation from successive budgets.
3. That as a nation, we are suffering from bad
leadership and bankruptcy of followership, as shown in the delay from February
to December 2013, before the incident becomes public knowledge.
Before now, men were not perceived
to be as heinous as they had exhibited in the Ejigbo saga. The stripping of
women naked in the open market and the insertion of broken bottles in their
vagina, an ordeal that took about one whole hour, where all sort of Special
Police and combined Team of Police/Army Patrols are supposed to be stationed,
are not only murderous, but crude, brutal, disgusting and very excruciating.
We need to thank Dr. Joe Odumakin and
her NGO and in fact all other NGOs that brought the incident to the open and
challenging all the three arms of government to ensure justice against the
strange, horrific and emerging form of violence. However, the press statement
granted later by Hon Kehinde Bamgbetan, Chairman, Ejigbo Local Council
Development Area (LCDA), Lagos, left no one in doubt that justice may be far
from Nike and her step mother. According to him, he had reviewed the incident
with the Divisional Police Officer (DPO) and it may be difficult to make any
impact considering that the crime took place nine months earlier and that the
victims may have relocated.
One would have expected the DPO or the
Commissioner of Police to refute the claim and assure Nigerians that the police
would rise to the occasion and unravel the terrorists. The incident may just go
to the archive like the case of Franca Ogbu who was bathed with acid by her boy
friend in 2010 and Chika Egbo, the 25 year old student of Enugu College of
Education, whose fiancé poured acid and defaced her face. Or the widely
publicised case of Yerima and his marriage to an under-age girl or that of Mrs
Chime against her husband who is still a serving governor, in the country.
It is the hope of every well-meaning
people to see that the criminals are arrested, prosecuted and sentenced. In
other places where government shows no strong interest in matters of public
concern, private investigators usually spring into action and unravel the case.
In the case at hand, apart from the solidarity by discreet and un-publicized
condemnation shown by public, only Janet Fashani, a New York based Attorney and
her partners, show financial commitment, by offering N25,000 for information
that can lead to the arrest of the culprits of the Ejigbo violence. It is not
that Hon Kehinde Bamgbetan cannot afford more, but the problem is, if he
insists that the culprits must be brought to book, who are those that will
ensure his re-election bid or future political careers? Majority of those who
would be very happy by the arrest of the vigilante men don’t vote. They cannot
afford to languish under the scorching sun only for the politicians to upturn
the ballots.
So the problem here borders on lack
of political will to do the right thing. It goes beyond problem of masculinity
or feminism. It has to do with state apathy and deficiencies in the execution
of law and order. In fact, violence against women is driven by complex
socio political factors. Patriarchal ideas about men and belief that
this is indeed a man’s world, is not only held by men, but also women.
In some cases, raping a woman is seen as a means of asserting power and energy
and show that man is stronger.
Due to this, there is need for an effective,
very holistic method and social revolution to readjust the wide conception of
feminity, redefine masculinity, empower women and create a Welfare Centre at
every police station or Local Government Areas or Wards, to manage and report
of all sorts of violence against women including domestic violence, stalking,
dating violence, sexual assault and the rest.Dr. Joe Odumakin’s NGO and other
NGOs should be strengthened to be able to do beyond publicizing human right
abuses.
In Philippines, The Bathaluman Crisis Centre
Foundation, established in 1991, doesn’t only publicize violations; it helps
women victims and survivors by providing psycho social support services, group
counseling and Referral Centres, to deal with physical and emotional trauma of
victims.
The Nigerian government should be
more challenged to combat violation of rights of women. In US, government set
up the Office on Violence Against Women (OVW). The OVW Act, enacted in 1995,
renewed in 2005 and 2013, enabled OVW to reduce violence against women,
administer justice and strengthen services for victims of violence against
women. Through government funding, OVW has so far awarded federal grants of
about $4.7 billion to communities across the United States.
Furthermore, Nigeria as a country
needs to tap maximally from the succour provided by International Organizations
and multilateral agencies such as the Amnesty International, World Health
Organization (WHO) and United Nations that has declared 25th November of every
year, as the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against women.
While the police needs to evolve a more result oriented method to arrest and
investigate violence cases against women, the prosecutors and the lawyers should
co-operate with the courts to seek redress for the victims of violence against
women.
Francis Ogunbowale
FOR EVERY MAN WHO DESIRES A CHANGE...
1.
I choose to make a positive impact on everyone I meet
and everywhere I go
2.
I choose to
be a solution provider and not a part of the problem to be solved
3.
I choose to
be a role model worthy of emulation
4.
I choose to
be the best in all I do, particularly the things I am naturally good at
5.
I choose to
do the right things at all times, regardless of who is doing wrong
6.
I choose to
value time and make the best use of it
7.
I choose to
care and show respect through my words and actions
8.
I choose to
consciously build a great legacy starting now,
today and everyday
9.
I choose to
live a life of integrity and honor
10. I choose to make my family, my nation and God proud.
LAGOS OPD LAMENTS LACK OF RAPE KITS
The Director,
Office of the Public Defender, Lagos State, Mrs. Omotola Rotimi , on Wednesday
said non-availability of kits stalled dispensation of justice in rape
cases. Rotimi made the statement during an interview with the News Agency of
Nigeria in Lagos, stressing that rape kits were necessary in the struggle
against sexual violence. She said, “We don’t even have rape kits in Lagos State
and even in Nigeria, there are none. “Just like you have the kits that are used
for AIDS victims, there should also be rape kits that any medical officer in
any hospital, whether government or private, can immediately use to collect
evidence from rape victims. “Then, the police will use this evidence in court
to prosecute the abusers.”
Rotimi said
that a rape kit was a set of items used by medical personnel for gathering and
preserving physical evidence following an allegation of sexual assault which
could be used during investigation. According to her, the evidence may help
identify the assailant and provide evidence supporting prosecution in a
criminal trial. Rotimi said that perpetrators of sexual violence act with
virtual impunity and escape justice because there were no rape kits. She said
that many cases of rape were not being reported because of lack of confidence
in the criminal justice system and the fear of social stigma.
Rotimi urged
governments to provide rape kits in all health facilities and police stations
to aid collection of evidence and dispensation of justice.
Source: PUNCH, 18/01/2014
RAPED 14 YEAR OLD TEENAGER SEEKS 447USD FOR CAESAREAN
The life of a
14-year-old eight-month pregnant girl is presently on the line over her
inability to raise the sum of N76, 000
required for a caesarean section at Igando General Hospital in Lagos State,
Nigeria.
The teen, simply identified here as
Miss Duke, immediately sought the intervention of a non-profit organization,
Advocates Research & Documentation Centre-WARDC, who, in turn, did an
open-letter to the state governor, Mr.Babatunde Raji Fashola, to allow the
teenager free access to quality maternal care in any of the state-owned
hospitals.
“WARDC is writing to seek your
urgent intervention to save the life of Miss Duke and allow her access to
quality maternal care. Miss Duke is being denied access to antenatal facilities
due to the high user fees and cost related to child delivery in state-owned
hospitals. Doctors say her life is in serious danger unless she receives urgent
necessary medical attention.
Miss Duke who lives in Isheri (at
Ikotun area) in Lagos State, Nigeria was raped eight months ago, and became
pregnant for a man named Tobi, who had since absconded after he was
inappropriately released on bail by the Police, at Isheri Police Station
sometime in August 2013. This teenager was referred by us to the Igando General
Hospital and was asked to pay the sum of N76, 000 (Seventy-six thousand Naira)
by the doctors who have said she must be operated upon in one week, and who
have also refused any fee waiver.
She has no parental support; her
only surviving parent, her mother, sells groundnut and does not have any hope
of raising the said amount. We are calling on Lagos state government to
intervene because the Committee on the Elimination of Discrimination against
Women at its 41st Session confirmed that states have an international human
rights obligation to immediately take action to reduce preventable maternal
mortality and morbidity”, the open-letter signed by Dr.Abiola Akiyode-Afolabi,
Executive Director, WARDC, read.
-Josephine Igbinovia
Questions:
1. This rapist (Tobi), why was he realized by the police?
2. When they found out he had absconded, where weren't his
relatives arrested?
Saturday, January 18, 2014
18 YEAR OLD VICTIM OF GANG RAPE COMMITS SUICIDE
An 18-year-old girl, allegedly gang-raped by three boys, has committed
suicide at her Amarata residence. It is a suburb of Yenagoa, the Bayelsa State,Nigeria. The deceased, simply identified as Janet, was a native of Oduali in
Abua/Odua Local Government Area of Rivers State. She was reportedly gang-raped
at gunpoint by the boys, who forced her into an uncompleted building last week,
while she was on an errand for her older sister. A source said: “The girl was
sad and devastated after the incident. After she narrated her experience, her
sister’s husband, who is a pastor, asked her to describe any of her attackers.
She described one of them and the boy was traced to his house, but he had
absconded. The pastor counseled her and promised to pursue the matter to a logical
conclusion. It was gathered that, unknown to her guardian, the distraught girl
had decided to take her own life. The source said the rape victim left behind a
suicide note, after which she took a poisonous substance known as "Snipe"r. She
was discovered groaning in pain, and taken to Gloryland Hospital, where she
died.
WHAT's GOING ON?
There is a season for everything which includes time for sowing and reaping. And currently, Nigeria is in a season of different scandals. The Oduahgate, involving N255 million bullet proof cars; All Progressives Congress, APC, leadership and the G7 governors, including the disruption of the meeting of G7 governors on the purported order of Inspector General of Police; Governor Rotimi Amaechi’s rift with President Jonathan, Senate and the missing N500 billion SURE-P fund, retired Col. Nyiam resigning from the confab committee after an altercation with Comrade Governor Oshiomhole, the lingering Academic Staff Union of Universities, ASUU, strike, kidnapping, crude oil theft, and so many other issues on the front burner of our social and political life occupy the front pages of our national dailies.
These have made people to forget a very fundamental issue on our hands which has devastated many families. The rising incidents of rape, can be regarded as the mother of all anomalies in Nigeria. A scandal too many to bear. All over the country, there is a new kind of unheralded harvest of rapes and rapists. And both come in dehumanising and embarrassing forms, thus bringing us to what a friend recently described as a whirlwind that does nobody any good.
Recently, a pastor was reported to have raped another pastor’s wife. The victim’s husband, also a pastor in another church was said to have sent his wife to the rapist to help collect a bag. But the randy pastor was said to have tricked the woman and had his way with her. The case is still in court. Only God knows if anything will come out of it considering the reputation of our courts and dispensation of justice.
My friend of 20 years whom I know has no flare for reading, or buying of newspapers, actually amused me when he sauntered into my home last weekend grimacing with a black bag in tow. The bag contained Vanguard newspapers of one whole week. On the opening pages 6&7, were these headlines: Boy, 15, rapes three kids, including 10-month-old baby (Mararaba, Nasarawa State); rival cultists rape woman, fling nine-month-old baby away (Somolu/Ketu, Lagos); 27-year-old man rapes mother (Ajebamidele, Ado-Ekiti).
There were other reports involving a school guard who raped a student (Ijegun, Lagos); 20-year-old boy raping a nine-year-old girl to death (Okuku-Yala LGA, Cross River State); a 50-year-old farmer raping and impregnating his teenage daughter (Ibeju Lekki, Lagos); gay pastor raping a teenage boy, 13, (Oyigbo, Rivers State). In addition, a 26-year-old trader, Samuel Nathaniel, recently bagged one-year jail term for sexually assaulting a five-year-old girl. The list is endless.
Rape a five-year-old, get one year in jail, this the court has demonstrated. The major reason rape cases are hardly reported is because people have lost faith with the judiciary which is often acclaimed as the last hope of the common man. No wonder our senators were seen sweating recently, at the floor of the Senate over the case of a policeman, who raped a two-year-old girl. This particular case unearths the rot in our judicial system.
This is a country where a rapist could also get life sentence according to the law, but more often than not, high profile offenders walk the streets free. No wonder Justice Ayo Salami, the retired president of the Court of Appeal cried blue murder, saying that he was treated like the Biblical Joseph.
Harvest of injustice even to the one time second most powerful member of the judiciary. That goes to explain why a policeman can rape a female detainee in custody and still go unpunished. I know that rape scourge is not prevalent in Nigeria alone. But the frequency of its occurrence is quite disheartening. As I hear somebody say that our situation cannot be described as bumper harvest yet, as in Democratic Republic of Congo, the so-called rape capital of the world.But they are in a state of war, while we are not in Nigeria.
Since nothing seems to be done about the spate of rape in our society, we are, with this inaction allowing another rape victim to die or remain traumatised for life with the family in perpetual pain and agony. This is a social malaise that we cannot allow to continue unabated.
The question everywhere is: Why the rising incidence of rape?
Victor Otigbu
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