Thursday, April 03, 2014

Who am I ? What am I doing?

My Blog makes me sad( Sexual abuse makes me sad).
Its the reason I took a break.

I asked myself ,  ''Should I change my style to an entertainment blog, or a trendy blog filled with the latest gists about who paints the town red? If I do this, I sure will get more traffic and publicity to my blog? Am I sure sexual abuse is the fight I want to take on, despite the sadness it brings?  Questions kept pouring in from Me to ME. I began to feel like I was a reporter of strictly sad/bad news (Sighs).

They say we dream about the last things on our mind before we go to bed.  Well, I dreamt about my posts on Eve's World daily and they weren't pleasant at all(My big Sis used to call me "Josephine").  Often times, I image the rape scenarios in my head like a drama and it began to affect my thinking "through the demon called "Fear".

Never the less, I want to change the world. Its not just a ''want" ; for me its a ''need''.  I NEED to make a positive difference. I refuse to grow old and die like most men and women do, without making an impact on others except family, friends and acquiring wealth.

What brought me back to this blog?
Simple- MY PASSION. Sexual abuse is a subject I'm passionate about. I realized nothing good comes easy. Currently I work as a Monitoring & Evaluation Analyst (travel a lot); am a Wife to a good Doctor , but I want to do more for others. I want more for myself. My Birthday comes up in two days time. When asked by my husband what I wanted as my gift, I requested he paid for a training course for me, which commences on my birthday (maybe next year i'll host a party). I don't want to be like everybody else so I need to develop myself in every way possible.

My blog is my memoire. I don't care about its traffic, publicity or who ignores. One day, this blog will make a positive difference, especially in the life of a rapist or Pedophile out there.


" There is no Passion, without Pain. To get the good fruits, you have to climb the tree''


Edna Wey

Friday, March 28, 2014

Where did I stop?

Hello all,
W.E  A.R.E  B.A.C.K!
The one month absence on the page was a deliberate time-out for "soul searching". Its past tense now and am back in your face to steer up your mind.

Sit back, Relax and get ready to put on your THINKING CAPS (*winks)

Cheers,

Edna Wey

Thursday, February 27, 2014

Jilted lover forces girlfriend to drink acid

 A 23-year-old man, Christian Samuel, has been remanded in the Ikoyi Prison by an Ebute Meta Magistrate’s Court for allegedly killing his girlfriend, Ijeoma Nwachukwu. The police said Samuel forced Nwachukwu, 26, to drink acid while they were together at Cossy-Inn Hotel, Abule-Oshun, Lagos State. Our correspondent learnt that the defendant had been dating the deceased for some time.
            However, Nwachukwu reportedly got engaged to another person without the knowledge of her 23-year-old boyfriend.When Samuel later learnt of it, he was said to have pretended as if nothing happened and invited the deceased to the hotel on January 11, 2014. He allegedly forced her to drink the acid, leading to her death. It was learnt that Samuel abandoned Nwachukwu’s corpse in the hotel and fled.
            The owner of the hotel, Olusegun Sangojumo, was said to have discovered the corpse, but did not report to the police. Instead, the 64-year-old called his manager, Kehinde Ajibola, and one of the workers, Azeez Olaitan, to dispose of the corpse at the Mile 2 end of the Lagos-Badagry Expressway. The police were said to have discovered the corpse and in the course of investigation, rounded up all the suspects. While Samuel was arraigned for murder, the other three suspects were arraigned for accessory after the fact.
            The police prosecutor, Inspector G.O Osuyi, of the Criminal Investigation Department, Yaba, said the offences were punishable under sections 221, 409 and 229 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, Nigeria, 2011. Osuyi, in a remand application for the four defendants, said they made confessional statements to the police and were identified by witnesses. The matter was adjourned till April 2, 2014 pending legal advice from the Directorate of Public Prosecution.


Man, 30, in court for raping 52-year-old

A 30-year-old man, Seun Balogun, has been arraigned before an Ebute Meta Magistrate’s court for allegedly raping a 52-year-old woman, Bola. The police said the incident happened at the Alagbado area of Lagos State. It was learnt that the victim was a “spiritual woman leader” in an orthodox church.
On the day of the incident, a church member was said to have fallen into a trance and Bola was on her way to call the pastor when she was attacked around 11pm by Balogun. The defendant allegedly held her by the throat and threatened to strangle her if she did not cooperate with him. He was said to have forcefully had carnal knowledge of her that night.
Balogun was later arrested after the victim reported the matter at the police station. He was arraigned on a count of rape which reads, “That you, Seun Balogun, on February 11, 2014, about 11pm at the Aminkanle area of Alagbado, Lagos, in the Lagos Magisterial District, did forcefully have sexual intercourse with one Bola, aged 52 years without her consent and thereby committed an offence punishable under Section 258 (1) of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, Nigeria 2011.”

The defendant pleaded not guilty and elected summary trial. The magistrate, Ms S.O Solebo, admitted him to bail in the sum of N500,000 with two sureties each in like sum.

PUNCH


Edna Wey!
http://www.evesworldinternational.blogspot.com

Monday, February 17, 2014

17-yr-old nabbed for sleeping with mother and raping 4 children

The Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps, NSCDC, in Ebonyi State, yesterday, arrested a serial rapist and homosexual, Chibuike Maduka, who allegedly raped four children of different parents at Ndibe in Afikpo North Local Government Area of the state. The suspect who blamed his strange sexual escapades on his mother, Mrs. Idam Augustina Josephine, confessed to have had sexual intercourse with his mother on several occasions and that he doesn’t know what usually compel him to have sex with children in the area.
            Parading the suspect at the Command headquarters in Abakaliki, the state Commandant of NSCDC, Mrs. Ego Echendu, said the suspect was arrested after a tip-off by an indigene of the area, adding that the suspect had in a confessional statement disclosed that he had sexual intercourse with his mother.  “We continued to monitor the suspect and fortunately at about 3:00pm yesterday, our divisional office at Afikpo North Local Government Area was able to locate him and his mother who, we reliably gathered, was also a  key player in the son’s sexual escapades.
            The suspect confessed to have been having sexual intercourse with the biological mother since last year and also claimed that the mother usually encouraged him to sleep with children of tender ages. “He sleeps with his own biological mother who is in our custody now; and he also told us that he is homosexual.
Vanguard gathered that the suspect, who hailed from Amangu village in Nkpohoro, began raping young children in 2008 as a Senior Secondary School, SSS, 1 student of Oziza Secondary School, Afikpo North Local Government area of the state.
My mother used me for rituals —Suspect
            According to the suspect, “I’m here because of my mother. She used me for ritual. I don’t know what I’m doing. If I see a little child I will rape her; this act started in 2008; it is not my fault but that of my mother. “I have raped my mother and four children. My father is late. I have had homosexual activities with one Emmanuel three times at Amangu in Afikpo North Local Government Area.” His mum denies the allegations. Reacting, the mother of the suspect, Mrs. Idam Augustina Josephine, 45, denied having any sexual involvement with her son. She said: “I am 45 years and the mother of Chibuike Maduka. How can I teach my child to rape little children? I’m here because my son raped some children; he is telling a lie, he never had any sexual relationship with me.”


VANGUARD

Rape in a Church

            
            The Police in Anambra, yesterday  February 16,2014 said a security guard attached to a church at Nkpor, near Onitsha, suspected to have raped a 14-year-old girl, has been arrested. The Police Public Relations Officer in the command, Mr Emeka Chukwuemeka, told newsmen that the suspect and two others, now at large, allegedly committed the offence in a church compound in the community. According to him, the three suspects threatened the girl with a machete before raping her. “We have launched full search for other culprits and commenced investigation into the case, and when we conclude, the suspects will be arraigned,” he said.
            The father of the girl, Mr Nzeyi Nwolisa, said the girl had been taken to hospital for treatment. He appealed to the police to speed up investigation so as to apprehend the remaining suspects and charge them to court. (NAN)

VANGUARD


Man who slept with daughters for two years gets 14 years imprisonment

                                           Man who slept           

A 35-year-old bus driver, Adeleke Adetayo, who was charged with sleeping with his nine-year-old and 13-year-old daughters, has been sentenced by the Family Court unit of an Ikeja Chief Magistrate’s Court to 14 years imprisonment. Saturday PUNCH had in July 2013, reported how Adetayo’s two daughters were rescued after a sexual abuse that lasted two years. Another report was published in December 2013, detailing the children’s life at the Lagos State Children’s Home, where they lamented that they had been scarred for life as a result of the abuse they suffered from their father.
            The six-month trial of Adetayo culminated in him finally pleading guilty to sexual assault of his children. In her judgement, Chief Magistrate A. Oshoniyi found Adetayo guilty of sexual abuse and child defilement, sentencing him to seven years each for the crime against each child. The judgment has been hailed by activists and government officials involved in the case, who stated that it was a victory for the Child Rights Act, 2005, which has hitherto been flouted by many criminals.
            The Child Rights Act prescribes a sentence of 14 years for a person found guilty of having sexual intercourse with a child. Director of the Esther Child Rights Foundation, Mrs. Esther Ogwu, who rescued the children and handed them over to the Lagos State Ministry of Women Affairs and Poverty Alleviationn, hailed the judgment as a message to pedophiles in the state that the law would catch up with them. She said, “I cannot be happier about how this case turned out. It is not only about the fact that the law has prevailed but that it is now clear that child defilement cases can be effectively prosecuted. There was no way of reaching the mother of the abused children, Kemi for comment.  The woman who has since remarried in Oyo Stat has remained incommunicado since her children were taken into custody by the state government. Adetayo is to spend his sentence at the Kirikiri Prisons.

PUNCH 15/02/14


My View:

A good step in the right direction!  It is obvious that the Lagos Government is the State at the forefront of working tirelessly to Fight Sexual Abuse in Nigeria. This judgement will sound as a warning to other rapists and pedophiles out there. Never the less, there is still much to be done. I believe this punishment is not enough. Concerning sexual abuse, three factors should be taken into consideration, which I termed the “PPC rule”: PREVENTION. PUNISHMENT. CORRECTION

1.      Prevention- Effective and efficient measures must be implemented by the government to prevent Sexual Abuse in every society. Individuals must take stringent measures to protect themselves; Parents must protect their children/wards, especially in a state where every man is “On his Own” in terms of security.
2.      Punishment – For any persons found guilty of Sexual Abuse, strong and lasting punishments should be meted on such persons. When convicted, spending time in jail will enable the convict have enough time to reflect on his/her actions during the jail term.
3.      Correction- It is not enough to punish someone for a crime. It is one thing to punish; and it is another thing for such persons to truly understand why he/she is being punished. Perpetrations of sexual abuse should also be rehabilitated. They should be educated and enlightened on the dangers and effects of their actions to prevent a repeat of such act.

Edna Wey!
http://www.evesworldinternational.blogspot.com


Saturday, February 15, 2014

I’m glad he had accident after raping me – 12 year old rape victim

I’m glad he had accident after raping me

In the emergency ward of the National Orthopedic Hospital, Igbobi, Lagos, 21-year-old Oye Adeleke was lying on a bed like every other patient who had suffered different degrees of fracture to their limbs from accidents. But Adeleke’s case is peculiar. In fact, the story behind how he landed in the hospital had circulated around the ward. Some of those who were discussing the issue when our correspondent visited him, used the word “karma” to describe his fate.
On January 18, 2014, Adeleke, who is an apprentice meat seller at Tinubu Market in Iyana-Ipaja, Lagos, allegedly added his name to a long list of sexual predators walking the streets of Lagos. That day, which would change the life of 12-year-old Bisola (not real name) forever, was when Adeleke ambushed the young girl and raped her for one hour. When our correspondent visited the ailing girl at her parent’s home in Gowon Estate, Ipaja area of Lagos, she gave a sordid detail of her ordeal at the hands of Adeleke, which later landed her in the surgical ward of the Igando General Hospital. Adeleke was eventually arrested but in his attempt to escape from the police custody, he was hit by a moving vehicle when he ran across the road.
Adeleke’s boss supplies meat to Bisola’s mother, a food vendor. It was learnt that the suspect had on occasions delivered meat to the girl’s mother. Bisola, a shy girl, who looked at her toes as she spoke, said, “I followed a friend to buy sugar in the market (she sells sugar to assist her family) and when I was coming, he (Adeleke) told me to follow him to their shop to collect meat for my mother. I followed him but I did not enter the shop.
“There was nobody else around. It was after 7pm. He told me to enter but I said he should bring out the meat. He then said I should take the meat from the freezer. As I attempted to open the freezer, he grabbed me and tied a cloth over my face and mouth. He held me down and pulled off my pants. He did not leave me until around 8.30pm. I could not shout. The place was dark.” The girl paused, her eyes moist with tears as she narrated the story. “I am happy a vehicle hit him,” she said. Each word spoken by Bisola seemed to come out with tremendous pain. It was clear the girl would rather not remember the detail of the experience her young body and mind had been put through.
Bisola was raped for an hour by her estimation.  She said she remembered the time Adeleke finally released her because she had to look at the clock on the wall of the shop because she knew her mother would have been looking for her. The young girl rushed out of her captor’s embrace bleeding and bruised.  But shame and confusion would not allow her to go straight to her mother.
Her mother told Saturday PUNCH that she had expected her to return but when she did not, she retired to bed, thinking that her daughter must have stayed late in her friend’s house. “I heard her enter the house later. But around 3am, she started to sob loudly,” she said. Both mother and daughter live in a small decrepit wooden shack around Gowon Estate. When the woman went to check on her daughter, she noticed her underwear was soaked in blood which had started running down her legs.
She was about to scream but quickly changed her mind because she was afraid of alerting her husband, Bisola’s step-father, to what had happened. “But by morning, I could not hide it anymore. She told me the person responsible for it and around 5am, we went to report at the Gowon Estate Police Division, Ipaja. The man was later arrested,” the woman said. Bisola was taken to the hospital and a doctor who examined her immediately recommended surgery to repair her damaged private part. After the surgery, she was on admission for two days. The doctor’s report obtained by our correspondent indicated that she was brought to the hospital “bleeding profusely from second degree laceration in her private part and broken hymen.”
But a day after the young man was arrested, he was released by the police. Director of the Esther Child Rights Foundation, Mrs. Esther Ogwu, said she intervened in the matter when the victim’s step brother reported the incident to her. “The girl was raped on a Saturday; by Monday, the man was arrested. But by Wednesday, the family said they went to the police station and were informed by the investigating police officer that he had been released. I informed the Lagos Public Advice Centre of the development and officials of the centre contacted the police division. The IPO was forced to re-arrest the boy. I just wonder if the police have heard of the Child Rights Act.” One of the reasons for enacting the Child Rights Act in 2003 is to stem the tide of child abuse and molestation in Nigeria and reinforce the legal provision against it.
Adeleke was rearrested and locked up preparatory to his transfer to the State Criminal Investigation Department, Yaba. But the suspect had a different idea. He decided to escape. As soon as the IPO turned her back, Adeleke ran out of the station and was about to cross the road when he was hit by a commercial bus. When asked why he decided to escape, he said, “I was just afraid. I did not know that it would become such a serious matter. I did not rape her. She is my girlfriend. We have been dating since early last year,” he said.
Bisola’s mother later refuted this claim as a concocted story because she only moved to Ipaja with her daughter in August 2013. Adeleke disputed that Bisola is just 12 years old which makes her a minor. He said Bisola had told him that she was 18 years old. But when our correspondent met the girl, there was nothing to indicate that a man could be fooled into thinking she could even be up to 15 years old.
The suspect said, “That day, I went to buy fuel and she followed me. When I returned home, I told her to leave but she would not. I told her to leave and I saw her off but she came back and started tickling me again. I then decided to do it. But when I pulled off her underwear and realized she was still a virgin, I decided to leave her but she started taunting me again. Then I did it. I did not know that she would bleed like that and that it would become a police matter.”When asked why he blindfolded and muffled the girl’s mouth with a piece of cloth, Adeleke denied doing that.
Meanwhile, Bisola’s mother and step-father have changed course on the case. When our correspondent visited them on Sunday, the step-father, who did not hide his anger, said he had no money to prosecute the suspect. “They should release him. I don’t have any money to move around to prosecute anybody. We have spent enough money already. Nobody should come and disturb me again,” he said.
Bisola’s step-father, who did not seem to be literate, was told that prosecuting Adeleke was not his job but that of the police and that he did not have to spend money. “What about moving here and there when the police call us or when we need to go to court? The man himself is poor. It is not worth it,” he said. Bisola’s mother, who seemed helpless in the face of her husband’s attitude, also concurred. “We spent money on her treatment; we have even incurred debt. We will leave the matter to God,” she said.
Child sexual abuse in Nigeria is on the rise but there seems to be no dedication on the part of the police to ensure proper prosecution.

Ogwu said it was unfortunate that the financial status of the families of victims prevents such victims from getting necessary care. “For instance, in this case, the doctor’s report indicates that the girl should be brought back for HIV screening and Hepatitis B screening, but you can be sure that is not going to happen if we leave the matter in the hands of the parents. This is why we decided to get the government involved,” she said.She had written a formal letter to the Lagos State Ministry of Women Affairs and Poverty Alleviation to take over the girl’s case.

Today's PUNCH

Friday, February 14, 2014

Valentine's Day Message




Happy Valentine’s Day Everyone.
            Today we remember the great St. Valentine, who believed in love against all odds.  Endeavour to show additional love to all around you. Surprise people with gifts, merry and be happy. Back in the days when I was an undergraduate in the University, Valentine’s Day was so much fun. Some girls received gifts from two or more admirers, while some received none. For those who knew they weren’t going to get any gift, it was a good time (excuse) to live the hostel for a church service all day or go home to avoid answering questions or being mocked. Some girls were indifferent and not bothered at all, while some got depressed or were filled with envy and Jealousy for the so called “Lucky” girls. Even when a girl wanted to break up with her boyfriend, she had to manage and hold on till after Val’s day to ensure she gets gifts from him. The next day after Val’s (Feb 15) was a day for some girls to count their blessings and for some it was a day filled with gossip. It was fun back then and all part of youthful exorbitance. Every girl prayed to get one gift or the other.
            But, just because some girls wanted to have something to say or get gifts to show off, many ended up being deceived and defiled. It was common back then. Girls who get raped on Valentine’s Day rarely speak out about it but end up confiding in one friend ( who ends up telling another friend, till it becomes public knowledge). Last night, I got a disturbing message from an unknown person on how a four year old girl who was raped in Port Harcourt, Nigeria. I woke up from my sleep and felt so disturbed for about an hour before I could go back to sleep. It was the first topic I discussed with my husband on this beautiful valentine morning. I’ll do everything I can to reach out and help.

To all my Ladies – “You are more than a few bottles of wine, cakes, perfume and chocolates. Don’t take yourself into the lion’s Den today just because of some cheap Valentine’s gifts”.

To all Men – “If she says “No” Don’t try to force her.  No matter the situation, you were not forced to buy those gifts so you should not  force sexual intercourse (Rape). Valentine’s Day should be filled with love and not a time for you to take advantage of anyone”.

            Remember, every evil done to a fellow man has its consequences no matter how long it may take. The evil that men do, always live after them. Don’t bring down generational causes on your children just because of some fading passion and fading joy.


CHALLENGE SEXUAL ABUSE IN AFRICA. Let’s start the fight from Nigeria.
Once again, HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY


Edna Wey!
http://www.evesworldinternational.blogspot.com


Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Man, 27, rapes girlfriend's older sister. Attempted murder

An Ebute Meta Chief Magistrates’ Court in Lagos has admitted one Babatunde Ojo, 27, to N500,000 bail, following his arraignment for rape and attempt to kill. The accused is facing a five-count charge of stealing, assault, rape, and attempt to kill and destroying evidence. The Chief Magistrate, Mrs A. A. Demi-Ajayi, admitted the accused to bail with two sureties in like sum. The accused was alleged to have raped a 29-year-old woman. Ojo resides at No. 28, Oshonibare St., Ishawo in Ikorodu near, Lagos. The Prosecutor, ASP. Etim Nkankuk, told the court that the crime was committed on Ja. 23, 2014 at about 8 a.m., at No. 2 Gentemon Close, Okediya, Ikorodu. He said that the accused was dating the victim’s younger sister.
            Nkankuk said that the accused went to the victim’s house to visit his girlfriend who was not at home. The accused went to the victim’s house and forcefully had sexual intercourse with the victim. While struggling with the victim the accused did cut the victim’s two hands with a knife, threw the knife , the victim’s night wear and other property he allegedly stole to an unknown destination. He stole the victim’s Apple Mark book laptop valued at N215,000, hard disk, valued at N15,000 and camera battery, valued N5,000.
            The offences contravened Sections 91, 171, 228, 258 and 285 of the Criminal Laws of Lagos State, 2011,” Nkankuk said. The accused, however, pleaded not guilty to the charges. Section 258 provides that any person who has unlawful sexual intercourse with a woman or girl without her consent is guilty of the offence of rape and liable to life imprisonment. Demi-Ajayi adjourned the case to March 31 for trial.

PUNCH

Edna Wey!

http://www.evesworldinternational.blogspot.com